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11-30-2010
RSMH	Quote: Originally Posted by willy5904 I would have agreed with you until a few years ago. I grew up in a very open family, nudity was very common in our home. As I raised a family again we were very open and it was very common for the entire family to be nude while at home. Ok, I grew up a nudist. A few years ago I invited a colleague to join us at the men's spa we go to after work. He agreed and came along with about a half dozen of us from the management team. When we arrived we went to the locker room and stripped naked. I could tell that he was uncomfortable with the nudity. Unlike many spas here in KL, the one I belong to nudity is very prevalent, rarely do you see men covered anywhere in the facility. That evening we steamed, soaked, took a massage, and had dinner. My colleague ended up spending several hours naked with a lot of men. By the end of the evening you could tell he was a more comfortable with the situation. He later told me, that evening was the first time in his 38 years that he had ever seen another man naked, or been seen naked by anyone. He said that he and his wife never saw each other naked. When they had sex the lights were always off. He told me that his culture, he was from India, was very modest. That's an understatement. You set a good example and opportunity for him and after a while he relaxed and really enjoyed the experience. Bravo to you (the more men that do this for their friends & family the better). You are also correct this stems from a lack of nudity in his family, thank goodness your Dad was more comfortable about nudity with you & your family because if wasn't for men like your Dad all families will only begin to look like this: http://www.graziadaily.co.uk/pub/21p...ary-burkas.jpg
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